How To Get The Most From The Magic Of Making Up – Part 1: Keeping Your Cool

November 30, 2008 – 8:49 am

If you want to get your ex back, the ebook The Magic Of Making Up is probably the best resource available for you. Of all the self help books I’ve read, it has the most complete set of techniques to undo the damage. It can help you avoid new problems and fix the existing ones. Its author, TW Jackson, has helped over 6000 people around the world win their lovers back.

But some people get books like this and don’t succeed. To give you the best chance of being like the 6000 plus who have made it, you need to do a few things that TW’s book doesn’t cover in detail because it focuses on the relationship aspect.

Don’t worry, though – I’ll share them with you now. First you need to know how to not block your own problem solving. After that, in the second and third parts, I’ll show you the best way to get your brain working for you, how to keep your own mind from working against you, and how to stay on track to your goal.

If you add these extras to what TW tells you, you’ll be set to get the most from his book and get your ex back, which is all you really want right now. So the first is not to block your own thinking. That means getting yourself calmed down – how do you do that?

TW also talks about staying calm, so stressful feelings don’t cloud your mind. There are lots of ways to calm yourself down so you can use the techniques in The Magic Of Making Up. Here’s the fastest and easiest way I’ve ever seen: Take a deep breath. Next, smile to yourself – even just imagine doing it - it doesn’t have to show on the outside. Now, breathe in again, to the count of 3, and breathe out to the count of 6. Imagine the stress being washed down your body and out your feet. You’ll feel ready better right away.

Another technique to calm down and be ready for using TW’s book is what the British Army teaches for emergencies: First, remember your goal (to get your partner back). Second, run through all the factors in your situation - just list them out - and then set them aside. Third, think of the two or three courses of action that might reach your goal. Fourth and last, pick the best course of action (following TW’s advice from The Magic Of Making Up) and plan out how you’ll do it.

These two techniques, plus another one that’s given in the book, will help eliminate your stress. That will help a lot. Next, you’ll want to get moving right away with the special techniques in the book. See the next article to find out more or just jump right into TW’s book if you’re ready!