The Magic Of Making Up Now

We’re talking about TW Jackson’s book The Magic Of Making Up. We’re touching on some extra preparation for you so you can make the most of TW’s great advice. In the first part of this series, I showed how to keep calm and clear your mind first, before trying TW’s strategies. In Part 2, I’ll reveal the best way to get your brain working for you, not against you. In Part 3, I’ll show you how to stop your own abilities from working against you. I’ll also give you tips for keeping on track to reach your goal.

Just add these techniques to what TW tells you, and you’ll be in even better shape to get the most from his book and get your ex back. And that’s why you’re here, right? Now, let’s get on with the best way to get moving quickly.

Your best approach is to do what a tracker or explorer does – orient yourself to your goal of getting back together. Step 1: imagine you already have your goal – as if it was already true. Don’t worry about the details of how you’ll get there, or whatever might be blocking you from reaching it. You’ll find those details either in TW’s book (that’s the “Magic” in The Magic Of Making Up) or else you can figure it out as you need it along the way.

Step 2: once you’re clear about your goal, consciously commit to it. It’s not enough to just want it – you have to marshal your whole mind to actually move toward it. This will focus all of your mind on bringing your ex back – without any stray doubts or distractions blocking your ability to carry it out. Once that’s taken care of, you need to make yourself aware of the truth of the situation now – so you can tell if you’re really on track or not.

How do you do that? You take a very clear look at your current situation. Compare it to your goal and notice all the ways that your present moment is different from your goal. This will show you exactly what you still need to do, and it will also give you extra energy to help you do it. As well, when you stay aware of the gaps between the present and your goal, you also stay grounded so you can deal with whatever comes up along the way – the unavoidable curve balls or surprises that always arise. And with that under control, you’re ready to do the things that will actually bring your ex back.

That means taking action. Now you plan your first – or next – few steps toward getting your ex back. You start on them, knowing that you can always adjust as needed as you go along. Luckily, you don’t have to come up with your actions all by yourself, of course – that’s what TW’s book is for. But you’ll be the one making it happen, so you’ll want to lay out your steps so that you can keep moving forward – and get your ex back as soon as possible. Once you do this, you’re in motion and you can easily keep track of what you need to do.

Now you’ll be able to get into action and stay on course using this free information. Put it together with the helpful system in The Magic Of Making Up, and your chances are excellent. All it takes is keeping cool, having a clear focus and direction, and making the most of your natural mental resources, which I talk about in part three of this series. Or you can jump right into TW’s book if you want to get started right away!