How To Get The Most From The Magic Of Making Up – Part 3: Using Your Head

November 30, 2008 – 8:54 am

We’re taking a look at TW Jackson’s book The Magic Of Making Up and some advice that will help you make the most of TW’s coaching. In the first two parts of this series, I showed you how to get calm and clear your mind before trying TW’s strategies. I also showed you the best way to get your brain working for you, not against you. Here in Part 3, I’ll touch on how to prevent your own abilities from working against you, and I’ll give you a little-known secret for keeping on track to your goal.

These techniques, together with what TW tells you in his book, will give you a great start toward getting your ex back. Why make yourself wait when you can start getting together again? Now, let’s find out how to make sure your inner resources are working for you and not against you.

Your mind’s resources of imagination, thinking, and memory can be great sources of help and power. But they can also cause untold trouble if they are used the wrong way.

Consider your imagination – too many people let theirs spin out of control fantasizing about where their ex might be or what could go wrong with their plan. It should be busy finding creative solutions to get your ex back.

Then there is your ability to think – it needs to be put to work making a great plan to get back together, not looking for flaws in techniques (or worse yet, in your ex). It will help you put into motion what your imagination comes up with.

And your memory – it can help you understand what went wrong that caused your break-up – as well as to remember better ways of relating to your ex that will improve things now and in the future. It is the glue that holds everything together.

All your abilities can combine to accomplish what you want. Make them work for you and not against you, and you’ll have a much easier time using The Magic Of Making Up. But how do you actually get control of your mental resources?

By using your secret “weapon” – your natural ability to observe yourself. You just step back and notice what you’re doing right at that moment – how you’re using or misusing your abilities – and how close you are to your goal of winning your ex back.

There is magic in this, too. When you notice what’s happening in your mind – whether things are working well or not – then they automatically start working better and better. You only need to step back and look at yourself as if you were another person, to see what you’re really doing.

You can then use this self-observation to pay attention throughout the day so that you can stay on track – and so you know when it’s time to do the next step from TW’s book. This will help you find the shortest road to getting back together.

Combine the excellent system in The Magic Of Making Up with this additional advice that you just got for free, and you’ll find it goes much easier. It’s simple really – keep cool, make your aim clear, and make the most of your own inner resources – and you’ll be able to get on course and stay on course to your goal of getting your ex back. You’ll get a tremendous boost of energy and speed toward getting back together as soon as possible.